The ability to solve non-standard problems and be creative about any work is laid in childhood. Many parents understand this and immediately enroll their child in a million different circles and sections. From which the child's horizons, of course, expands, but he is absolutely unable to choose what he really likes from the large number of tasks assigned to him. It is easier for him to give up everything, then a problem like "Leave me alone" arises. This is the wrong approach to raising a child.
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Of course, each parent has his own understanding of "right and wrong" parenting, but there are some useful tips that will help both children and their parents avoid problems and scandals.
A model of creative behavior.
The parents of the child are the model for any behavior. And only you yourself can instill in him a creative approach to business and life. You should not immediately run to specialists and give them a lot of money for raising your child. It is very important to be interested in his extracurricular hobbies. Connect to the game and solve problems together. It's great if parents' work is connected with creativity, take your child with you, demonstrate your skills, let him try to repeat. Don't be afraid to do everything together.
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Suggest ways of self-realization in dosage
Not all at once! On one day we make cakes together, on the other we make papier-mâché, and so on. Children have a lot of energy, but they can also get tired, and 8 different circles a day will not be beneficial. Listen to the interests of your child: you do not need to scold him for suddenly deciding to quit ballroom dancing. Without the desire to do something, the benefit will be zero.
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Support in all endeavors
Wants to sing? - Okay!
Want to dance? - Let him dance!
Want to paint? - Perfectly!
Support from family and friends is worth a lot. Pay attention to what the child really likes. You should not instill in him your unrealized skills and dreams, this is a big mistake.
In conclusion, I would like to add that being a parent is the most difficult job in the world. And here, unfortunately, you need to make mistakes and try something new, so that in the end your child will grow up to be a good and versatile person. There is no shame in the fact that you seek advice on the Internet, many situations can show you how not to act in a particular situation.
Good luck with your children, dear readers!