When Children Get Lost, They Often Hide Or Run Away From Those Who Are Looking For Them, Precisely Because They Are Afraid That They Will Be Punished: An Excerpt From The Book About The Work Of The Detachment "Lisa Alert"

When Children Get Lost, They Often Hide Or Run Away From Those Who Are Looking For Them, Precisely Because They Are Afraid That They Will Be Punished: An Excerpt From The Book About The Work Of The Detachment "Lisa Alert"
When Children Get Lost, They Often Hide Or Run Away From Those Who Are Looking For Them, Precisely Because They Are Afraid That They Will Be Punished: An Excerpt From The Book About The Work Of The Detachment "Lisa Alert"

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The publishing house "Bombora" published a book about the work of the most famous search group in Russia - "Liza Alert". The book “Found, Alive! The notes about the Lisa Alert search group were written by the head of the press service and the Lisa Alert school instructor, senior search group Ksenia Knorre Dmitrieva.

"Found, alive!" are not only emotional stories about the squad's search operations. The author added reference materials to it - both about the structure of the Lisa Alert squad and the search business, and about safety rules, as well as recommendations for parents, interesting facts about search engines and much more.

With permission from CJ publishes a small excerpt from the book.

"Lost child, if he is not a fool …"

Many thoughts after today's Lisa Alert lesson at school.

I will not say that there are hundreds of them behind my shoulders, but dozens are for sure, and today there were three moments at once that surprised me.

The first happened when the teacher, who at first sat on the phone, began to listen, then ask questions, and then took and told how she was dragged into the elevator by a stranger, how she fought with him, how he blocked the elevator, and she all- she burst out onto the floor, how she burst into apartments and heard how the door was locked in one of them, and how this man severely beat her.

During our lessons, children often recall their stories (though usually more prosperous), and adults, it happens, tell something like this in social networks, but so that the teacher in the lesson and with the children - for the first time.

My first thought was - to understand the reaction of the children, if they were afraid, because even I felt uncomfortable listening to this. But no, they are having fun, asking questions, for them these are all horror stories. The second is to say something to the teacher, because she was looking at me with obvious expectation. And I said that I thought: you are a great fellow, that you struggled and fought, of the three defense mechanisms in such situations, fading often turns on when a person becomes numb and falls (against his will, of course) into a state where he cannot move either his hand or foot, and you're in luck, you have a very cool defense mechanism.

The second moment is when the boy said that he knew the verse about the missing child. I was surprised, asked to read it, and he read it. And I, of course, remembered him, but I did not remember the whole Lisa Alert:

* * *

Lost child

I must remember that his

Will be taken home as soon as

He will give his address.

We need to act smarter

Say: "I live

Near a palm tree with a monkey

On distant islands."

Lost child

If he's not a fool

Will not miss the right opportunity

To visit different countries.

You can easily guess the author - this is Grigory Oster.

And finally, the third moment came when one of the girls, after we discussed with the children what to do if you were lost, suddenly said - very sadly and sincerely:

- But mom will swear terribly when she finds

And he looks at me questioningly.

Then I was again at a loss and remembered that when children are lost, they often hide or run away from those who are looking for them, precisely because they are afraid that they will be punished. And she remembered a wonderful story about how, it seems, a girl disappeared in Israel, the whole city went out to look for her, and when it turned out that she was in a neighboring city, the mayor asked all the townspeople to return home, because otherwise the girl would be afraid that because of she's so naughty. And they all went their separate ways.

Again, I gathered my thoughts and again honestly said what I thought:

- You see, mom and dad in such situations quarrel not because you are bad or they do not love you, but because for any parents this is the worst thing that you can think of - to lose your child. And if this happens, they are terribly afraid that they will not see him again, and therefore they swear when he is, but in fact they are very, very happy. This is how they get rid of those difficult emotions that they experienced. Talk to your mom about it, tell her how afraid you are that you will be scolded, and how you feel at that moment; I think she will understand you.

The girl looked at me incredulously.

In general, children are like children: they made noise, spun, shouted from their seats, asked stupid questions and at the same time listened perfectly, worked, thought.

It's all complicated, but good.

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