The actress shared her wisdom on the social network
Under the photo published a few hours ago on her personal Instagram page with her 17-year-old daughter Maria, Lyubov Tolkalina decided to share her principles of raising children with subscribers. “Do not expect your child to be the way you are or the way you want. Help him become not you, but himself "(hereinafter, the spelling and punctuation of the author are preserved, - note WomanHit.ru), - the artist began the post. Then she urged her audience not to demand payment from the child for good deeds and not to take out their grievances on him, "so that they do not eat bitter bread in old age."
Also, the star believes that in no case should you humiliate and treat the problems of your heir from above. “Do not forget that the most important meetings of a person are his meetings with children. Pay more attention to them - we can never know who we meet in a child,”said the actress. “Not enough has been done for a child if everything possible has not been done,” says the celebrity. Summing up, she urged fans to love someone else's child as their own, and love their own by anyone.
“A child is not a tyrant who takes over your whole life, not just a fruit of flesh and blood. This is that precious cup that Life has given you for the preservation and development of creative fire in it. This is the liberated love of a mother and a father, who will not grow “our”, “their” child, but a soul given for safekeeping,”writes Tolkalina.
Attentive followers noticed in the comments that the film star quoted a book by Janusz Korczak entitled "How to Love a Child." year the couple broke up.