The singer, member of the "Factory" group Sasha Savelyeva became a mother quite recently - her son from Kirill Safronov was born in March 2019 - but she is already thinking about how she will bring him up. Moreover, she is not interested in elementary things like “how to teach him to say thank you and please or to respect elders,” but much more globally - how to educate a free person.
Modern parents have many options for raising their offspring. Today there are kindergartens with various educational programs, various circles, and so on. Yes, and many books have been written about how to behave to parents, and they have a huge choice. It is not surprising that the newly-made mother, singer Sasha Savelyeva, also thought about how to make her little son happy. And her own mother gave her this idea. It turned out that the parent of the star carefully monitors the content that the famous daughter publishes on her Instagram account. She asked Sasha to remove one of the photos, explaining her desire by the fact that Savelyeva turned out to be ugly there. The singer listened to her mother, but wondered, how would she act in this situation in her place?
“Of course, I politely explained to her what I liked and thanked her for her opinion (the photo, by the way, was natural and silly, you know, I don't like the country of Kuklandia). And then I thought, like a newly-made young mother, how I would act in this situation … Would I like to express my opinion on this matter … It is clear that we want the best for our children, and so that they are beautiful and beautiful and smart from all sides and … and … and … But aren't we breaking personal boundaries with this? Do we not put our children in an "awkward position" instilling in them long-playing complexes, "pulling" them, implanting our absolutely subjective opinion …"
Needless to say, this is not an easy question. Often, children, hoping not to offend or hurt the feelings of their parents, follow their lead when choosing an educational institution, specialty and place of work. At the same time, as a result, adult children admit that they do not live their own lives, for example, they wanted to be doctors, but work in business, and so on. There are many such stories today and as a result - thousands of questions, where is the golden mean when your child is in front of you? As you know, there are no universal advice, but parents should always remember the wise words: children are guests in our life, raised - let go.
